Well, until recently, when for the very first time, I needed a translation. A younger friend literally had to translate a message I had received. Not because I didn’t understand the words, but because the way of communicating felt so unusual that it left me a bit shocked. I needed some insight into the mind of a classic Gen Zer.

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Why does the Noise Happen?

Every generation has its own way of expressing itself, but Gen Z has brought a small revolution:

- their communication is fast, visual, and often ironic,

- they use abbreviations, emojis, and the “meme-ification” of language,

- they often switch between serious and “inside joke” tones, which can be confusing for older counterparts.

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This is not just youthful slang – it’s an entire communication code shaped by social media and constant trends. When older generations communicate with them in a “formal tone,” we may come across as stiff, while trying to mimic their style can quickly slip into “cringe” (read: awkward).

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Communication noise between generations is nothing new, but with Gen Z it becomes obvious, because their code develops almost in real time – in memes, trends, and apps.

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Mini Gen Z Dictionary

-rizz – charisma, charm

- delulu – living in an illusion, seeing things rosier than they are

- it’s giving… – something gives off a certain vibe or feeling

- slay – you nailed it, did something impressively well

- lowkey / highkey – quietly, secretly / openly, loudly

- 💀 (skull emoji) – something is so funny you’re “dead” from laughter

- 💅 (nails emoji) – nonchalance, confidence

- ok boomer – a way of dismissing someone who doesn’t understand younger generations

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How to Communicate with Gen Z (and Avoid Noise)

- Be clear and direct – skip long intros and sugarcoating.

- Be honest and authentic – Gen Z spots fake friendliness faster than older generations.

- Use visual elements – images, videos, GIFs.

- Don’t shy away from humor and irony, but avoid sounding forced.

- If you don’t understand something, ask. Openness is valued more than pretending.

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Communication noise between generations is nothing new, but with Gen Z it becomes particularly obvious because their code develops almost instantly – through memes, trends, and apps. If we want to build bridges, we need to be willing not only to listen but also to learn their language. And sometimes, we just have to accept that we need a “translator.”

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